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Does anyone know the right response to someone if they say to you, "You look very young to be a minister"?

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Glen Marshall said…
Yeah, "Just give it a year or two".
5:10 pm
Rev. Jeremy Smith said…
Given that this happens on a weekly basis with me, here's my favorite canned responses:

- God calls us no matter how old we are.
- Your momma.
- I've been doing this for a few years, so imagine what I looked like three years ago!
- When I bury you, I promise to look older and dignified.
- Someone's got to reach out to the younger generation, right?
- Your face.

(some are snarky...sorry)
5:59 pm
Anonymous said…
someone said to me a few years ago:
"you may only be thirty one...but you took that funeral like a fifty one year old"
I think it was meant to be a compliment...

(thanks for the blog)
peace.
11:22 pm
Anonymous said…
"Thank you"

People say that I look too young to do whatever all the time. If they mean it as a compliment then a thanks is appropriate. If it's meant as an insult the thanks often takes the wind out of their sales.
11:01 pm
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